lunch anyone?
Leaving work I decided to see if anyone wanted to go to lunch. Redneck steve is not available. Hes checking on the bar in playa del Carmen. My boy andy was busy im guessing… he never called me back. Then I went to the chick category. First text was “Alyssa triathalon”. She was busy, running, swimming, and then biking.
Then, I tried “daleah mavs”. She was at the mall and gave me a maybe.
Then “tiffany young hotness 7.5”.. she was already eating. By this time im less than 15 minutes from the restaurant. And keep in mind, im texting these rapid fire. So I do run the risk of getting a “yes” followed by another “yes”… or do i?
“angie gun show” was next but never replied. Neither did “caramie promo hot”, or “Candice no biz cards”… so that was 6 attempts and 2 “no’s”, 3 “no replies” and 1 maybe… then the phone rang and the maybe turned into a yes. How about that??? it only took about 30 minutes of work which included 7 text messages… I think there should be a rule. Trying to find someone to go to lunch with, should not take longer than lunch itself!
One of my true conflicts within myself is that I am going to be single… I have said it before and I’ll say it again. I realize that I am destined to be single and im working on being ok with this every day… on the other hand, I like to hang with a girl from time to time. Way, way, way, down deep inside, I do want to have a girl that I hang with and do stuff with from time to time. Someone to go to lunch or dinner with, someone to talk my day over with and to hear about hers. Someone to watch tv with on the couch or to go to church with. I really don’t know how these two opposites go together but im trying to figure it out.
October 3, 2008 at 10:31 am
Sounds like you want the relationship without all the complicated stuff that comes along with being a in relationship. Like commitment, yea I said it. You just want someone there for you incase there is nothing better for you to do with yourself.
You may want to rethink the way you think and/or treat girls. Not all nice girls have big boobs and stupid personalities. Why dont you broaden you horizones just a little. You might find what you are looking for in someone who isnt what you already tried. Have a nice day and I love the show!
October 3, 2008 at 3:00 pm
You just havent found the “right” one, and once you do, it will all fall into place. You seem like a very loving guy that will make someone very lucky. It will happen when you least expect it!
October 3, 2008 at 5:57 pm
It of makes you feel any better, I stuggle with the same dilemma. I’m sure we are not the only people that feel this way either. I think once you realize you are okay with it, it’s not so bad. I weigh out the pros and cons all of the time. Sometimes it sucks coming home to nobody, but then I enjoy being able to go somewhere with no questions asked. Keep your options open and enjoy life. You’ve really got to figure out where you are more happy, in the single world or the dating world?
October 3, 2008 at 6:16 pm
Hate to say it Al, but you still sound like you have the same old “Desperado” attitude….it’s not even funny material…………….Unfortunately, most of the time, girls and guys just aren’t attracted to someone who advertises how desperate they are…. sad but true…..
I’m sure you wouldn’t be attracted to a girl who kept telling you how lonely she was, or how no one wanted to go eat with her…….Suck it up Al……. and be the man you are….
If eating alone is the worst thing that happens in your day… then you should be counting your blessings…..